I am always saying things like, "Whatever is supposed to happen will happen" and "Just when you need a pick me up something awesome will come along." I annoy people to no end with my hippie mentality. But the reason I say these things is because I actually believe them.
Saturday night in Santa Cruz we had planned on going to this Indian restaurant. We walked in and the whole vibe of the place just screamed, "No!" to me. But I was with two of my girlfriends so I just kept it in and smiled. One of them realized the place was cash only and she didn't have cash, so we decided to go someplace else. We walked to a Greek restaurant that was really crowded and loud. I looked at the prices and said, "I don't have enough for this place. But you know what? I can just have a salad and appetizer and that'll be fine." At this point I'm starting to freak out a little.
We decide to go to a cheaper place across the courtyard. Now, this place is taking a little longer to take our order than they should, but it's really not a big deal. But one of the women I'm with starts to make a big deal and be vocal and a little rude about it. I HATE this kind of behavior in restaurants. It's not the server's fault you waited too long between meals and are cranky and hungry. It got so bad that I wanted to just get up and leave. But instead one of my friends told the lady while holding her arm, "You really need to relax and calm down." Luckily, when the food came it was all so delicious her mood changed and things went fine from there on out.
We had parked our car outside a music venue called The Catalyst. I've seen acts there like Deke Dickerson and Mike Ness. It's a great little place. As we're getting in to the car I hear someone yell my name. I turn around and there is my friend Patrick Sheridan from New Jersey. He was unloading equipment. His band was playing at The Catalyst.
I had no idea he was coming. If we had parked anywhere else, or left five minutes sooner, I would not have seen him. I gave him a huge hug and a kiss and was like, "What the hell? What are the odds?" He apologized that he didn't call to tell me he'd be in California but life had been busy blah blah blah. I told him I understood and that I was just really glad I saw him. I needed that hug from a friend right then. It was SO NICE. I hadn't seen him in about two years. Since he did the tattoo on my chest. He had also done the ones behind my ears.
My friends asked if I wanted to go to the show. I kind of did but I knew the music they played wouldn't have been enjoyed by the ladies I was with, as it was metal. So I just told him it was great to see him, and that I'd be in his neck of the woods next year, and I'd give him a call. It was a very awesome chance encounter and I'm glad it happened. I adore him, and I don't talk to him that often. The talented bastard has a special edition Ibanez in his name. He has a baby boy I've never seen in person, who's not even a baby anymore. I am looking forward to going and getting to meet his son.
Things really do happen for a reason. After a slightly stressful evening I got to see an old friend and get one of the best hugs ever. I really needed that and it totally made my night.
Happy picture of the day: Laffing Sal. She is an old animatronic lady from the Boardwalk. She's been around forever. She both amazes, and scares the shit out of me.
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I love when kismet is at it's best and something great happens. You always think, 'what if I had taken two more minutes to do something, or decided to go somewhere else?"
ReplyDeleteWe see some truly amazing things happen in Hospice, which I'll have to get around to writing some day. Just the perfect thing happening at the perfect moment.
That is too funny because just a week or so ago, my own mother looked at me and said to my Dad, "She would have made a great hippie, wouldn't she?" (about me) I believe the same thing - that all things happen for a reason, and I don't believe in coincidence. I often think about encounters like that with people where if one thing had been slightly 'off' in my schedule or theirs, we wouldn't have met up. Life is a funny, wonderful thing!
ReplyDeleteAnd a big ME TOO!!! about rude behavior in restaurants. I am willing to guess your friend has never been a server in a restaurant...most all that act like that haven't done that job and know that it is very hard, often thankless and a target for just such rude behavior all the time. That kind of thing makes me so uncomfortable. It was an absolute deal breaker in my dating years if a date treated the servers like second-class citizens. I've done that job, can honestly say that I loved it, but one incorrigible customer could make the job three shades of hell, for sure. Glad all evened out and she settled down to enjoy the rest of the evening!
Exactly Kianwi,
ReplyDeleteIf we had eaten somewhere different, or found a different paking space, I never would have seen him. I would like to hear about your hospice moments. You should write about it.
@CLR,
I am such a hippie in so many ways, and then totally not in many others.
I can't STAND when people are rude to servers. If they are snooty or really horrible I will leave a restaurant. But this kid was just busy and confused. The place was run badly. Totally not his fault. I just chalked it up to, "I won't dine out with that person again." It's a learning experience.
That is just crazy! I like what was said to the hyped-up one of your group. Isn't that interesting how that all comes together. Life is weird like that.
ReplyDeleteIt is crazy. I love when stuff like that happens.
ReplyDeleteI didn't say anything because I was so mad I knew I wouldn't be kind about it, so I kept my mouth shut. I'm glad my other gal pal Kymberley was able to calmly and gently convey to her that she needed to just relax.
i would have been down for that show, but it is no fun going to a show if you know your friends will hate it!
ReplyDeletei chalk a lot of things up to fluke and to chance. who cares about the reason, particularly if things turn out well!
side note: it drives me crazy (delete this comment if you hate this) when people say god is watching out for them. in the recent shooting in colorado, one of the surviver's said that god was looking out for her and that is why she survived. does that mean he wasn't looking out for those that died?!?!? REALLY?! you are more important than those that didn't survive?!?!?!? BLARGH! i hate that!!!!! it is rude and self-absorbed, and i think UNFAIR.
i would rather attribute things to FLUKE than to think some higher power is controlling every little thing. but that is just me.
SORRY if this comes across as a mean rant! i am highly caffeinated and might be a bit over the top today!
I believe that things happen to me with the universe's help for a reason. I needed that hug from a friend right at that moment. I love him dearly and hadn't seen him forever. I can't believe that was just fluke and chance. But you have every right to believe what you do.
ReplyDeleteI don't like when people say that either, but honestly if I let people like that get to me, they win. Not that it never pisses me off. I just think also that the universe takes care of the scumbags who think things like, "I wasn't shot because god is looking out for me." If your God is in any way responsible for people being shot, but not you, your god totally sucks. :)
Rant away. I don't get offended by stuff like that. I like hearing differing opinions. I think it's the people who aren't sure of their own beliefs that can't handle when someone thinks differently than they do. That's not me.
As for the show, Kymberley would've gone and loved it. But it just wasn't necessary to go. I hate crowds. It would've been nice to see him play. I can probably go on YouTube and check it out. Guess I should ask the name of his band. I'm a bad friend. Haha.
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing how real good food can instantly change someone ;) lol
ReplyDeleteThat animatronic woman is both amazing and freaky looking!
ReplyDeleteExactly Jax. The food was really good!
ReplyDeleteKellie, when I took the picture of her I thought of you because we both like weird and freaky things.