I have been telling myself ever since I got Roxy and Molly, "These are not your cats. These are someone else's cats you are taking care of." But you know what? When you have cats for a year those little sentences start to mean less and less.
So then I started griping about them leaving fur everywhere. I moaned about how they destroyed a 1920s dresser I have, and my Archie Bunker couch. They were heathens and a huge pain in my butt. Yeah, that didn't work either.
On the 4th the family who left the cats in my care came over to retrieve them. I had already put Roxy in a cat carrier as I knew she scampers when she hears folks coming in my gate. I had been crying all morning. I was going to miss what had become my babies. Babies who slept in my bed every night. I sat and talked to Roxy as she meowed unhappily from her kitty cage.
Gail and her daughter walked in and I tried to put on a brave face. I told them their kitties had been loved and I had become far more attached than I even thought imagineable. I am not a kitty person. I am a tough lady who loves nothing....grrrr! Tears welled up in my eyes again as I told them where Molly was and that I would help them get her.
Then Gail looked at me and said something to the effect of, "You know what? Cats aren't really loyal animals. They aren't even going to remember us. You love them. You can keep them." I said, "Really?????" I hadn't realized how much I wanted to hear her utter those sentences until I was hearing them. I didn't want to give these kitties back. I loved them, and I wanted them to stay with me. So that's what happened.
I told Gail they are welcome to come over whenever they like. I said since the kitties hid they could come over some Sunday and I'll make a marvelous dinner. Usually when people are over the kitties will slink out a few hours in to check out the company. I also told her if she changes her mind to just let me know. I know if I were in her shoes, I wouldn't be able to let go of the kitties.
So I am now the proud new mama to two kitties. Kitties I can now say are my babies. Roxy is still huge at 20 some odd pounds, and Molly is still the mean girl who knows how pretty she is and attacks Roxy without provocation at times. Sometimes I'll hear a loud THUMP as Roxy jumps up on the kitchen counter to see if I've missed any morsels she can gobble. Sorry Roxy, you're in OCD clean lady's house. No crumbs for you here.
I am really happy that I get to keep the babies, at least for now. I mean, who could say goodbye to this face?
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What a sweet kitty face! Congrats on being a new kitty mama. I've always had dogs, up until The Husband rescued and brought home an 8-week old kitten. He placed her in my hands, and my heart just melted! From that point on, I became a full-on psycho cat lady, LOL!!
ReplyDeleteI love my kitties so much. When you called them your babies, I knew you were hooked. Congratulations mama, you've joined the kitty cat club!!!!
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ReplyDeleteI never thought I was a cat person, but I am an animal person. I love animals. So it makes sense that I fell in love with the two kitties.
@Not,
I tried everything I could to not get attached. My brain doesn't work like that anymore. :)
Im convinced that when people say they arent cat people, they just havent met the right cat yet! Glad you get to keep them!
ReplyDeleteI have had two cats before and loved them both.
ReplyDeleteI am glad too. I talk to them like they're my kids. It's pretty ridiculous. :)
the kitty love runs deep!!!! i am so glad you get to keep them! and i am horrified that someone could give them up so easily, but at least they have a good home.
ReplyDeletei was NOT a cat person until my sister brought one home one day. and then it was all over. i love love love cats. they are so weird and quirky and so entertaining. and cuddly, too. what more could one ask for?! :)
I'm sure it wasn't easy for her. Everyone thought with all of my, "I can't wait to get rid of them" ramblings I was heartless I'm sure. But I just kept saying that hoping that someday I'd feel it. But I never did.
ReplyDeleteI am such a kitty mama. I have already went to get them better food, which is more spendy but since they're mine and are going to grow old with me I made the investment. Next month I'm going to get some climbing stuff and toys. Also, I am double sticky taping the couch Molly claws so she'll stop. It's going to drive me nuts looking at it, but not as nuts as I get looking at a frayed couch.
Oh, that's great!! I ended up with one of my cats that way. I was only watching him temporarily for my friend, but he's so big and fluffy and snuggles with me at night, and one day I woke up and he was mine :)
ReplyDeleteIt's the ones you don't expect to love that you fall the hardest for, because something about them is so special that they are able to sneak into your heart :)
Yeah, these two are loveable little buggers. Roxy is this huge, crosseyed doltish looking cat but she's VERY smart. Molly is really gorgeous and just kind of in her own world. She only lets me pet her a little but at night she snuggles up on my legs. It's very funny.
ReplyDeleteAww, I'm so happy for you :) This post actually did make me smile and get all sentimental like (sorry tough girl grrr lol). Enjoy your new babies!! xo
ReplyDeleteThanks lady. I am gonna. I have already spoiled them with new fancy food. Now I just have to slowly transition so it doesn't upset their tummies.
ReplyDeleteCongrats, cat Momma! They really do crawl into your heart and throw up a furball in your soul, don't they :D
ReplyDeleteThat comment made my throat itch.
ReplyDeleteAww. I know I couldn't ever give up my cats. My dog...maybe...she's a nutter! But never the cats!
ReplyDeleteNow I just have to put double sided sticky tape on my stuff so they'll stop scratching. Save the Archie Bunker couch!!!
ReplyDeleteSo awesome! The world needs more crazy cat ladies. :)
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