So I have been conversing with mister missed connections and all signs point to being acquaintances but nothing more. The separation between he and his wife is too new and they seem to do a lot of backsy forthsy middle school break up and get back together stuff. So not interested in becoming any part of those shenanigans. But apparently SOME backsy forthsy stuff is fine since I have agreed to meet up with Dave (Unicorn) to discuss the possibility of us perhaps rekindling our romance.
I am so not a fan of the break up and make up mentality. Either stick it out and make it work, or break up with a clean break and move the eff on. But with Unicorn we broke up 'cause he couldn't do the only seeing me once a week and the distance was difficult for him. With the idea that he can see me AND other people coming to light, he is willing to give it another shot, so I am as well. I am hopeful yet cautious. Cautious because I wanted so badly to try and make it work last time, and he was very sure he couldn't carry on with the long distance thing. We shall see.
I apologized for the mean blog post about him continuing to text me, but as it was the only thing that worked it served its purpose. I was very angry when I wrote it and don't regret having done it at all, but it was a mean and angry post. I can be a bitch when I wanna be. :)
I can not even BEGIN to tell you how many times I have been singing, "It's Raining Men" in my head over the past day or so. Did I mention he's grown a beard ANDYOUALLKNOWIHEARTMESOMEBEARDSANDGLASSES!
Welcome back Unicorn. Let's see how it goes this time around you sexy beast. I love the sad, pouty face.
Whenever I hear that song from now on, I will think of you Mel, and smile :)
ReplyDeleteYou have no idea how excited I am that you are going to think of me every time you hear a gay anthem! :)
DeleteI wish it was raining men, sadly for me, there isn't even a drizzle.
ReplyDeleteHope it works out for you guys this time around. :)
I hope so too.
DeleteI keep laughing about the blog post I wrote when we broke up. I know my coping mechanism in break ups is concentrate on every bad personality trait the person had, and only those. They help me deal with the heartache better and move on.
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ReplyDeleteIt's an embarrassment of riches! I hope things go well with unicorn.
ReplyDeleteI think the breaks ups and make ups that happen over and over, closely together are the ones that aren't good ideas, but sometimes, when everyone has had some time apart and some time to think, making up is the right move. I am thinking that might be the case for you! I am anxious to hear how the poly thing changes the dynamics of your relationship.
ReplyDeleteFeel free to blow the storm of men over to Michigan any time now :)
Is there something in the clouds over there that causes these abnormal manfalls?
ReplyDeleteI agree with Kianwi (except for the wanting a storm of men thing). I tend to be a "done is done" person myself, but I've definitely seen some very successful rekindlings. I hope Unicorn appreciates all the awesome you have to offer...
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