I got the idea from a lovely lady Kate, who writes a blog called Eat The Damn Cake. If you are not yet reading it, I suggest you put it in your favorites and do so right away. She is a fabulous writer, who tells lovely tales that every woman, and pretty much every human, can relate to. This post here started a conversation between she and I via email: http://www.eatthedamncake.com/2012/01/11/i-want-to-look-like-a-pirate-queen/.
She had said she never really wore bold items of clothing, and she wanted to start doing so. I told her of a really fun baby blue coat I have that always gets a visceral reaction from folks, whether that reaction be good or bad. I sent a picture of the coat, and she said she needed it. Lightbulb over the head later, and I decided this coat needed to start traveling. I told her I would dry clean and send her the coat. She can keep it as long as she needs, then she must pass it on to someone else. I am also including a journal to tell the story of the coat and what it has meant to me. The coat goes to Brooklyn tomorrow!
Many thanks to my lovely boyfriend Rich, for putting up with my insane behavior and making this little doozy of a picture for me.
Back story of the coat: A friend of mine was doing a W.E.A.V.E. clothing exchange at one of our local haunts. You brought 10 items of clothing, and 10 dollars, and you got 10 chips. Each chip entitled you to one clothing item on the racks or shoes and purses strewn about on tables. If you chose an item someone else also wanted, you had to do a runway like walk-off, and the crowd decided who got the item. Great idea because it was fun, W.E.A.V.E. got an item for every item someone chose, and they also made a bit of money. I immediately spotted this coat and walked up to it as another gal walked up to it as well. I looked at her and said, "You REALLY don't want to have to do a walk-off with me. I'm made of super sass." She said, "I do believe you are." And thus, the coat was mine.
Not only is the coat warm, but it always gets a reaction from people. From, "You killed Grover!" to "That is the greatest coat ever!" It has helped me get over some of my anxiety because random people will pet you in this coat. I HATE being touched by people I don't know. But with this coat it's pretty much impossible to get mad. If I saw someone in this coat, I would want to pet it too. I just wouldn't, 'cause I have this weird thing called manners. Haha.
I once had a hairdresser misunderstand what kind of cut I wanted, and I ended up with 1" of hair all around, with bangs, and long side pieces. Like an old skinhead fringe or a chelsea cut. I was so sad because it made me look even more butchy than I already do. Wearing this coat got me through that haircut. It was the only time I didn't feel manly sporting that hair.
So off the coat goes, and I wish it well. I don't care if I never see the coat again, but I do hope to see stories of it here and there along the internet, and I do hope no one keeps it. But hey, if someone needs to keep it, than they need to keep it. I know I have had it about eight years. It has served me well. Live on and prosper baby blue huggy bear pimp coat. I hope Kate has many an adventure with you.

Oh man, I love that coat!
ReplyDeleteIt's a pretty great coat. I kind of want to do it with a great purse too. Like the Audrey cigar box or the Skinner purse.
ReplyDeleteGreat pic and even better story!
ReplyDeleteThanks Gretchen! I just finished the note that will go along with him, and will be taking him to mail in a few hours. I'm really excited to see where this goes.
ReplyDeleteDoes the coat have a name? I feel like it might need a name.
ReplyDeleteI always called it Huggy Bear Pimp Coat. I think Huggy Bear would have approved. (see Starsky and Hutch original '70s series imdb page).
ReplyDeleteThat coat and its origins are sublime! Eager to hear about the fluffmeister's future adventures. Sure to be sass-filled. ;]
ReplyDeleteThanks Brooke.
DeleteMy friend over at the other blog will be sending it forward soon I'm sure.
Is it weird that I feel like I need that coat? My bright pink hair has been an icebreaker for me and my anxiety, but it just feels like a part of me now and it's "not enough" to ease the gap.
ReplyDeleteI don't think it's weird at all. Go ahead and comment on Kate's blog or send her an email and maybe the coat will be yours next!!
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